I was thinking this morning about motherhood. I have a confession to make, it really isn't as hard as I thought it would be. Well, maybe that is not completely true, only partially true. It is amazing how Steve and I have adapted to having a child in our lives, we just make it work and most of the time it works very smoothly. Let me share with you some things about being a mother- One list will be things that are harder than I had imagined and one list will be things that are easier than I had imagined.
Things that have been harder than I ever imagined.
-Keeping a clean house. I used to be quite clean, people would comment about how clean my house was. Don't get me wrong, my house is still clean, most of the time. But with a child it doesn't stay clean for very long and sometimes I just don't want to clean, I have a million other things to do.
-Leaving Matty with anyone. I thought for sure I would always be relieved when I would leave him and get some time away from him. But now I just plain don't want to leave him, I like being with him and I miss him when I am not with him.
-Recovering from being pregnant and having a baby. Although this was quite awhile ago, it feels like just yesterday. It took about 6 months for me to feel "normal" again. Your body and mental health goes to hell and back when you have a baby!! Whew!!
-Discipline. I knew that I would have to discipline my child, but you just have no idea how hard it is going to be and how often you are going to have to do it until your child reaches "that age". Teaching your child good behavior and discipling bad behavior is not for the lazy, laid back parent. It is hard and always will be hard, but you have to do it or you will have a bratty child.
-Losing the baby weight. I easily lost most of it. But the last 10 pounds are still sticking to me- 2 years later. Oh well!!
Things that have been easier than I ever imagined.
-Changing diapers. Piece of cake. I had that down after the first day.
-Integrating a baby in to our life. Like I said before, it just works, it isn't that hard.
-Bringing him out and about. If I need to go to the store, go to a friends house, etc etc, I do it. It isn't hard to transport him and he behaves very well most of the time.
-Sleeping. He has always been a pretty good sleeper, we have had our moments, but all in all I have not ever been extremely sleep deprived.
These lists can potentially go on and on and they can change with time. Being a mother is very fluid it is always changing and moving because that is what your child is doing. This list would probably be very different next year. All in all I believe God gave women an inate ability to be a mother and when us women become mothers we fit right in to that role and it comes to us easier than we thought it would. I am so thankful for being giving the gift of motherhood.
Because it is Friday-
I wanted to share with you this picture that has nothing to do with my post. Isn't it cool??? It is Steve and our friend, Matt, with the fish they caught in Fairplay. I absolutely love this picture.